The Elements of Love

Welcome to Love.Confidante!


Have you ever wonder, what is love? why did love exist? do you really understand love?

Love is an emotion that nearly everyone has experienced at some time in their life.

So what is love -- real, lasting love?

Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another's goodness.

Of Cause, different people have different definition, that's why, we come together sharing our concepts, experiences, troubles and help each other in the path of real, lasting love.




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Wednesday, February 6, 2008

Happy Lunar New Year!


hi my dear immortals.. Happy Lunar new year to u all! 希望你們新年快樂,心想事成。。。恭喜恭喜oh~ =) 拿多點紅包!

By: tinG

Sunday, October 28, 2007

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

The Wonder... Wondering Boy...

Have you ever wonder, all these things you have done in life, are you doing it for other people or are you doing it for yourself?

I've been wondering about it for quite some time.

From school till work, are we going through all these because we truly wanted to or just because theres only this path in life that everybody must go through.

'I want to do something for myself!' (I suddenly msg my friend screaming this to him)
'zzz... what you want to do?' (My friend reply)

For that instance, I couldnt answer his question.

Sitting here in office, staring out of the window at the sky, listening to my collegue talking about earning extra income online.
Once again i'm wondering, wondering about what can i do for myself in life.

What have you done for youself that makes you truly happy?

- The Wondering Boy

Thursday, October 18, 2007

Rain~~~

It's finally raining these few days. :D dun noe y, but dun feel really normal last few weeks. feel like something is bothering me. ya. it makes me almost cold blooded. like hack care abt others feelings n tots. now better le. maybe is becos of the rain ba. really like it raining days, very cooling. used to hate them, cause rain = lightning = short circuit = cannot use com. lol. that's the past le. wat passed, is the past. just let it go. :D

Thursday, September 20, 2007

Living Your Dreams, in a Manner of Speaking

hey, check out this article at yahoo. its abt u being able to control ur dreams, regardless of nightmares, action pack or even romance. quite an interesting article.

Saturday, August 25, 2007

a penny for my thought- part 2

hiya, i'm back. yes, u have guess it right. i'm going to continue on the post 'a penny for my thought- part 1'. hope u people out there enjoy it n if it helps u someday n somehow, i'm bless. :D

Marriage is a whole new stage of love. It is very different from what the youngters are feeling and experiencing. Why is that so? They are still deeply in love with one another, if possible, even more so. But there are some new addition to the 'virus'(remember the virus?? if not u can check out the post 'a penny for my thought- part 1' :D) Yup, the 'virus'. The 'virus' like most or even all of its kind, mutates. It upgrades to suit and adapt to the harsh living conditions that its kind are facing, materialism. With materialism around, poeple will emphasis on material objects, comforts, and considerations. Which will result in a disinterest in spiritual value. Here, it means love. (As some will agree with me, love has a part of spiritual connection in it, some will be able to 'sense' what the other half is doing, thinking or even feeling, when they are miles apart. Its alright if u din experience any of it, it varies from a person to another.)

A few years have come and go, a young couple undergoes marriage. Yet another few months or years have passed when the number of times they share honeyed words and the number of gifts they give one another diminish. It can be possible that they don't see such gesture as tokens of love and gratitude, to them they are MARRIED, what can be done to show how deep they love one another, to them, marriage is the utimate stage of showing that 'i care for u. i love u. i want to be with u. i'm happy to be with u. i cant live without u. n such.' But they don't realised that such a special bond needs attention and care for a baby to mature and strengthen. They don't realised that small gesture of love and gratitude by giving gifts and showing affection can make marriage last longer and happier.

p.s: will be sharing on what to do and what not to do in marriage and bgr'a penny for my thought- part 3')

---TAURUS---

Monday, August 20, 2007

a penny for my thought- part 1

yo, finally i'm here to contribute to the site. pai sei. too many things happening n so little time plus there's only one me. pls pardon my language, n feel free to do any editing to it. :D

There are a few angles to how one can view marriage. it can be view as a legal procedure for people to undergo so as to buy bigger houses, have kids(hey, the kids have to have a whole family, right?), get special government package(for babies manufacturer), last but not the least, love. Of course there are other reasons to it, but for now, i'll name these few.For all those mention above, i'll be touching on love only(writer's block).

Love is a very very special virus that makes one crazy n give lots of courage for those infected to do tons of stupid things. It is very contagious. Infected personal will think of the people they want to spread to causing them to have difficulty concentrating on the work at hand, changing into near zombie state when he/she is near, see the goods of one another but not much of the bads as well as behaving differently and such. There's only one way to cure this virus, that is Marriage. Yes, i can hear surprise gasp from u. Dont be shock. Its only after married, that the symptoms disappear one by one slowly. Why is that so?

It can be due to the fact that the cured couple now have a near immune resistance towards the virus that they are not as worried to losing one another compared to before marriage. As time goes by, they the number of times they share honeyed words and the number of gifts they give one another diminish. And with times, their eyes enhanced by the good n bad events of life, starts to see each other’s weakness clearly, like a banshee among the elf priestess. The bads have outshone the goods. The good they used to see in each other seem to diminish with time, like a wilt flower.

--TAURUS---

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