The Elements of Love

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Have you ever wonder, what is love? why did love exist? do you really understand love?

Love is an emotion that nearly everyone has experienced at some time in their life.

So what is love -- real, lasting love?

Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another's goodness.

Of Cause, different people have different definition, that's why, we come together sharing our concepts, experiences, troubles and help each other in the path of real, lasting love.




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Monday, August 20, 2007

a penny for my thought- part 1

yo, finally i'm here to contribute to the site. pai sei. too many things happening n so little time plus there's only one me. pls pardon my language, n feel free to do any editing to it. :D

There are a few angles to how one can view marriage. it can be view as a legal procedure for people to undergo so as to buy bigger houses, have kids(hey, the kids have to have a whole family, right?), get special government package(for babies manufacturer), last but not the least, love. Of course there are other reasons to it, but for now, i'll name these few.For all those mention above, i'll be touching on love only(writer's block).

Love is a very very special virus that makes one crazy n give lots of courage for those infected to do tons of stupid things. It is very contagious. Infected personal will think of the people they want to spread to causing them to have difficulty concentrating on the work at hand, changing into near zombie state when he/she is near, see the goods of one another but not much of the bads as well as behaving differently and such. There's only one way to cure this virus, that is Marriage. Yes, i can hear surprise gasp from u. Dont be shock. Its only after married, that the symptoms disappear one by one slowly. Why is that so?

It can be due to the fact that the cured couple now have a near immune resistance towards the virus that they are not as worried to losing one another compared to before marriage. As time goes by, they the number of times they share honeyed words and the number of gifts they give one another diminish. And with times, their eyes enhanced by the good n bad events of life, starts to see each other’s weakness clearly, like a banshee among the elf priestess. The bads have outshone the goods. The good they used to see in each other seem to diminish with time, like a wilt flower.

--TAURUS---

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